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Pregnant Tales

by Sarah

Here I am, in the 3rd trimester of pregnancy. Kev made mention that we’ve got about 2.5 months to go until our son arrives. Holy cow! This trimester stuff is going quickly, and I can’t get over it.

These are just some updates and stories of how the pregnancy has played out so far.

Second Trimester Tuna

In my 2nd trimester, all sorts of “fun” started. My friend “pregnancy brain” started making its first appearances – more on that later. I also ran into “food aversions”, of the smelling kind. Kev came home one day and made Tuna Helper for dinner, which sent me running to the bathroom. The strong smell of tuna did not settle well with me. Poor Kev followed after me, only to find me crying and laughing in the bathroom. I knew what it was and just had to laugh about it.

Garlic stuff would do that to me whenever it was cooking. If it was a super strong smell while cooking, I’d have to hide in with the chinchillas or somewhere else away from the smells.

Unfortunately, I think my wiring really got flaky, as coffee started to smell like tuna. Mind you, I can’t drink coffee as it’s too bitter for me. But I could at least handle the smell. But 2nd trimester, coffee smelled like tuna.

I’m thankful that come late 2nd trimester, something triggered that wiring back. Coffee finally started to smell like coffee again.

Pregnancy Brain

This morning, Kev and I were walking into yum cha when we saw a bunch of little birds in a tree. I made the comment that those were the little birds that didn’t fly North for the winter. :( Wait… that’s not what I meant!

This isn’t the first time I’ve said the wrong thing, and I know it won’t be the last time. We had gone out for dinner last Monday, since it was my last night at home with Kev until Friday. We were talking about something and I managed to flip two words around completely. I don’t remember what I said, but I do remember he repeated it to me and we were both cracking up, almost to the point of my crying from laughing so hard.

Pregnancy brain has been getting worse as the pregnancy has gone on. Words get flipped, wrong words get put in the wrong places. If I say something that doesn’t make any sense at all and it’s not a time when I’m tired, please understand that my brain is apparently not itself and that this pregnancy has reworked some of the wording, not always in the right form.

Nursery Work

While I was out this past week, Kev painted the nursery. For those who’ve been here, the chinchillas have been moved to the basement, and their room will be the nursery. I was gone for most of this week at a conference, and my awesome husband worked his butt off – sanding the old walls (since they were semi-gloss), painting the ceiling, and painting the walls. It’s coming together nicely!

This afternoon, we picked up the boy’s crib. I’m looking forward to seeing how this will work in his room!

As we were driving home, I made the realization that if, by some awful timing, I went into labor today and had our son, we would be able to make this happen, mostly. However, I keep trying to negotiate with the little man to get him to stay in there as long as he can bear, as it’s a bit early for my liking.

Snoring

While catching up on Grey’s Anatomy, I was watching an episode where McDreamy was laying in bed, watching Meredith snore. Kev happened to be sitting here with me, and apparently in that scene he’s like McDreamy, and I’m like Meredith. Pregnancy has definitely brought on all sorts of changes, and the added weight and inability to adjust to moving around in my sleep has brought on snoring, a lot more than usual. When that scene replayed later in the episode, I had to ask him if that’s how we really are some mornings. I hate snoring and waking him up, and I can only hope that once I have my son that I can lose the weight and hopefully lose the snoring too.

Ah the joys of pregnancy…


Super Mario Brothers Mobile, In the Making…

by Sarah

As many of you know, I’m not a crafty type typically. I can sometimes crochet things, but otherwise, craftiness is not a skill that I’ve really inherited. However, a trip to Chinatown inspired me to take on a simple craft in preparation of our son’s arrival. After yum cha, Kev and I explored some of the stores nearby, as we like to do. That’s where I found 6 different Yoshi keychains at a really good price, so good that if I had bought them and wanted to sell them on eBay, I could have easily made a profit. However, when I saw Yoshi, I knew I had to take on this project.

Ever since I found out that I’m carrying a boy, I’ve wanted to do a Super Mario Brothers theme in the nursery, which Kev has agreed to! These Yoshis were the start of the idea of creating a mobile for Logan’s crib. Once I got home, I had to have Kev check his supply of computers to see if he had any fan grills. Unfortunately, with as much computer stuff as we have, we didn’t have the ones I was looking for. After a trip to the overpriced MicroCenter, I ended up ordering 2 120mm fan grills and 1 140 mm fan grill for this project.

Then, I realized I needed more characters for my fan grills. So I ordered more:

I needed a way to hang the mobile on the crib, so I ordered a mobile arm off of Amazon.com.

Finally, I needed something to hang the grills to the mobile arm to make it come together. For now, I’m using floral wire that I picked up at Michaels.

The key to putting all of this together was finding balance – between the characters on each grill and in mounting round objects. When suspending a horizontal circle on a mobile, you have to account for gravity and weight, which is why each side had a piece of floral wire coming up to the middle to balance the grill properly. The current project looks like this:

I’m not sure on the floral wire and whether I like it. I also have a little MP3 player with an external speaker that I’m going to load up with lullabyes and mount to the mobile for my little boy as well. Stay tuned for an update on the final product.


Thoughts on last words…

by Sarah

My friend Pablo started blogging this year, and I have a feeling some of his blog posts will lead to more posts here. Recently, he blogged about Any last words?

Dance as if no one were watching,
Sing as if no one were listening,
And live every day as if it were your last.
- Irish proverb

Last words, be it before someone dies or the last time you see someone in general, aren’t an easy thing to deal with. More often than not, you don’t realize that the last together is the last. That usually leads to not remembering just what moment was the last.

I’ve lost all of my grandparents, a cousin, a dear friend, and others over 2 decades. Never once did I think that my last time with them would be the last. Even though my grandparents had cancer or strokes, I figured they’d fight it. I never suspected I’d lose a 7 year old cousin due to heart problems. And my friend who died in a car crash at 21… our whole group of friends never thought we’d be together for someone’s funeral, let alone his.

You have to trust your instincts, and let go of regrets.

Are there things that I regret? Yes. But last words aren’t on that list. And while I may regret things, I don’t let my life get consumed by that regret. I regret and move on. If last words are something you regret, it could be a regret that consumes you if you reflect on them too much.

For me, I’ll continue to use that Irish proverb up there as a guide for living. Why? Because you never know when that moment may be the last.


Looking back on 2011…

by Sarah

This year has been one heck of a year. I had someone ask me if I could describe the year in one word – unpredictable. I had no idea that this year would’ve taken the path it did. Some of this year’s highs and lows include:

  • January – By the end of this month, we were surprised with news that I was pregnant! Finally! :)
  • February – At the beginning of this month, we found out that the pregnancy was finished. Little one had stopped growing. Thankfully, we had close friends and family who supported us throughout this time. At the end of this month, despite going through the tough time of miscarrying, I flew out to Seattle for my global experts summit at Microsoft. That was great to see my MVP “family” again! When I left Seattle, though, I knew that there was more change in store.
  • May – My book came out! I’m now a published author!
  • June – We had fun on a real vacation to the Outer Banks with a group of our friends and their families. It was great to disconnect and just relax. I miss the long walks on the beach and just hanging out with everyone. But I also learned a lot from some of my friends and what they do for their jobs.
  • July – This month started with a trip to the ER for a bladder and kidney infection. Ouch! The end of the month was back-to-back conferences and events. The biggest move of this month was giving OverDrive 4 weeks notice – I knew that I had hit a roadblock that wasn’t getting remedied properly and needed to move on.
  • August – My last day at OverDrive was August 12th. I am now the proud owner of Cleveland Tech Consulting, LLC – doing software and IT consulting. On August 13th, we found out that I’m pregnant again! Went down to Tennessee for a conference. Overall, good month…
  • October – Saw the end of first trimester and started telling everyone else about the good news!
  • November – Found out the awesome news… IT’S A BOY!
  • December – Last Annual LAN Party … last year of hosting drunken debauchery.

Overall, a crazy year… one I couldn’t predict. But this is the last morning I’ll blog about it, as 2012 starts soon!


There’s No Business Like Snow Business…

by Sarah

Wait… that’s not how the song goes?!? But did you see the snow we got here in Cleveland this past weekend? Eh… to those of us who live in the snowbelt, it’s merely a dusting. But I had fun driving the Durango down an unplowed North Marginal Road to Burke Lakefront Airport for the LeanDog holiday gathering this past Saturday!

Speaking of snow, Google is getting into the snow business. Fun times!

If you’re travelling in the snow and don’t know how to drive in the snow, just stay home so that those of us who can drive in it won’t feel like our lives are always in danger. If you know how to drive in the snow and are on the roads, stay safe!


There’s No Place Like Warmth…

by Sarah

Earlier this month, Kev and I had the chance to spend time with some friends down at their place in Palm City, FL. It was nice to get out of the cold and just relax.

Just some of the pics that we took while we were out…
Oyster Reef Restoration Project

Birds of Paradise

Sand sculpture promoting Daytona Beach

You can see all of my pics from there here.


Mistletoe and Holly

by Sarah

While driving to my doctor’s office on Monday, I heard this song on the radio and had to remember it. For those who aren’t aware, I absolutely enjoy Frank Sinatra’s music. This is no exception:


In a Christmas music mood this morning…

by Sarah

This morning, I woke up with this song in my head:

This wasn’t a Christmas song I was familiar with until a few years ago when one of my friends showed me this, which intrigued me. I liked Bing Crosby’s other Christmas songs, and I’ve always enjoyed David Bowie’s stuff… but it seems like such an unlikely combination. However, their voices work well together!


One week til Thanksgiving…

by Sarah

And yes, this morning, I am listening to Christmas music. :( If there’s one thing that’s really getting to me this year, it’s that I’ve had a strong urge to listen to Christmas music much earlier than I normally would allow myself. I listened to a song in September, then again in October. Today, I’ve given up hope on waiting until the day after Thanksgiving to listen to Christmas music. This kid in me approves of Christmas music, which doesn’t help me. :)

I’m looking forward to Thanksgiving this year, as I’m going to hopefully see family I haven’t seen in awhile. Some may not have seen me since I announced the big news of our arrival due next spring. It’ll be nice to just spend time with family in general.

I’m thankful to be surrounded with an amazing family – both my blood relatives and those who’ve joined our family over the years. I’m thankful for having awesome friends – who put up with me and my ridiculousness no matter what. I’m most thankful for having such a wonderful husband, who’s been super supportive me throughout the past few months – between forming my own company and getting pregnant, it’s been chaotic, but he’s been my rock. Kevin is such a great guy, and I’m excited to be carrying his baby!

One more week until turkey, duck, sweet potatoes, green bean casserole, peanut butter pie, and all sorts of other tasty treats… one more week until spending some time with family… and one more week until I can appreciate Christmas music guilt-free. ;)


The Seven Year Itch – Part Two

by Sarah

As I mentioned in our anniversary post, there’s another long road ahead, and not just because I started my own business. This little one is due on April 4th, 2012!

We're expecting a baby in April 2012!